How you think of it.

What do you think, is it the things that we do that results in the outcome of our own own doings? Or the outcome of what we do is the result of our own doings?

This is my own way of asking the old phase
"The means justify the End or the End justify the means."

Just think of it, before you do anything in your life, what do you want out of it actually, is it the result is the cause of a series of methods done or is it the way how you work to get the desired result.

Example:

A Girl want to go to school.

1) The girls came to school in time because she woke up early.

2) The girl took a taxi just to get to school early.

In answer (1), the ends justify the means. She came to school early because of her previos action which is waking up early.
In answer (2), the means justify the end. The girl wants to get to school early and found a solution which is taking a taxi that would speed up her journey to school.

If you would ponder for a moment. Both answers 1 and 2, the girl did get to school early, but what matters is the means which is the reason why she wanted to get to school early.
In life, you must have a reason why you do somethings that you do, in that way, it could make a simple coming to school early a hard thing or a normal thing to do.

in another words, although you have a problem, like you require to come to school early, solve the problem by waking up early. But why is taking the taxi is'nt a good solution? Maybe because in solution 2 which is taking the taxi, in another way means you are late hence you need to take a taxi inoder to acheive your goal. While if you woke up early, if anything that is unpredictable happens, you could always go to plan B which is taking the taxi.

My own words of thoughts: When acheive your goals, always have a Plan B to your solution. Not a Plan B for your Goals. Plan B for your solution is when you have a solution in mind, think of the things that can go wrong and have back up plan to solve that problem. Rather then Plan B for your goals which means if you can't acheive your goal, then you would acheive other goals.
remember, Goals are ment to be acheived, not as a option to be acheived. Hence bottom line is, choose proper goals, not proper method of acheiving it.

All About Yourself

Have you ever felt that people just come up to you just because they are intrested in you? Maybe yes.
Have you ever felt that people just come up to you just because they want to help you? maybe not.

People usually just think about their own need, what they want, what they don't like, what they need. But have they ever stop and think about what others need?

Just like the customer service at any shopping center. Shoppers comes to them and start asking "Excuse me, do you know where is this shop located?"
Well maybe it's becos their job is to provide that service.
What if u are just a normal shopper, did anyone ever come up to you and ask you teh same question?

People, some people who "offer" help some are genuine some are fake, just for their own satisfaction and some for their own need, it's hard to find someone who help just for the sake of helping.

They come to you, sadi they can help you, but what they can't do is to assist you, intract with you. All they do is ignore you. They don't even notice that you are there.

Offering help, just for the sake of offering and giving a crappy help is worst.
Help with the full intention that you want to ease that person pain or problems. Smoothen their sorrows. Some who receive this kind of treatment do mistaken for Love as Love do require this treatment. But for teh sake of Helping genuinely is also possible.

What is Love, is it just a feeling, a hunch, adoring someone, falling for someone, being touched deeply by someone? Love is all that and much more but the most important thing about love is, Missing Someone. To know weather you love someone..you will feel Missed. No matter how much u love that someone, give him/her presents and kisses him/her all night and all day, and saying "i love u" all year long, and when that person is gone. There is no missed feeling in side your heart. Life can just go on...that is not proper.

Bottom line is. WHat is Love? love is when u really miss that person in your life. That is love. Without that missed feelings, it's just a love for sex, features, body figure, money, that's all.

Mistaken Love

What is Love, is it just a feeling, a hunch, adoring someone, falling for someone, being touched deeply by someone? Love is all that and much more but the most important thing about love is, Missing Someone. To know weather you love someone..you will feel Missed. No matter how much u love that someone, give him/her presents and kisses him/her all night and all day, and saying "i love u" all year long, and when that person is gone. There is no missed feeling in side your heart. Life can just go on...that is not proper.

Bottom line is. WHat is Love? love is when u really miss that person in your life. That is love. Without that missed feelings, it's just a love for sex, features, body figure, money, that's all.