Have you ever notice that everyone go to someone because he/she needs something from someone. Well i just notice it, well not that im just a dumb ass who just notice obvious things, like duh! but just think of it, sit for a moment and just ponder, have anyone just come to you any other most probable reason other than need something from you? Like example, someone come and say these few lines to you,
"Hi, do you have a pen so i can borrow?"
"I need your advise on ..."
"Well i got this problem, as you can see.."
"Hello hello, can you please assist me on..."
"Excuse me, do you know how can i go to this place?"
"Have you seen.."
"Come with me, i need to tell you something.."
As you can see, people come to you everyday just to Need something from you, either need to assist them, help them, tell you something so that you can do something about it. But when they do not "Need" you, sometimes they just talked about themself and what they been doing, sharing their experience to you. But sometimes when it's your turn to share your thoughts, they just put a deaf ears and just can't wait for you to end your line so that they can continue talking about themself.
Well here come the beautiful part, what if...someone come to you and say,
"Hi, how can i assist you?"
"Here, have my pen."
"I'll show you anywhere you like to go."
"I know how to do this, would you allow me to show it to you?"
It's just a nice way to approach people, be to their elper rather than going to people asking to help you.
It's better to listen to people than talk and expect people to listen.
