Monday, July 25, 2005

Handling it

One of the days when you feel lonly and seems that everyone is against you. Nothng that you do please them, all they see it that you did'nt do to what they want. They speak in harsh words, all making fun of you. Well that's what happening to me. I feel like bursting out, speak out and tell them how i feel like,

"Hey you, don't you think scolding me would make me better?"

or

"Are you trying to say that scolding me due to a fault of mine? or is it just because i did'nt do the way you wanted?"

Well some action i agree that it should be commented, but you can always say it nicely, what's wrong with saying it nicely? or Saying it more like a friend say like.. "hello friend, ..." "i think it should be done this way..." With those words it makes the littleless mistakes in your normal job life more easier to handle.

Now comes the Handling of the situation. How i cope with it? Sometimes words that are harsh to me, it does hurt my heart and my feelings. And sometimes i do feel that it really unfair that the one who's scolds someone is the one who actualy did'nt do a thing! They just sit there and watch, sees anything wrong and point out, WTF! If you think you're that good and you can do all the things right, you might as well do it. If you're soooo lazy and does'nt care of doing it, atleast just Shut Up!

Back to the topic of handling it. How i handle it? by treating yourself, do something that make yourself at ease. Like sit alone under the void deck eatting ice cream, have a few nice drinks alone at night, and last of all, lettng it out on a blog.

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