Have you ever have in a situation when one look at that person's appearance and facial attributes you can instantly tell what type of person he/she is. It's our nature to judge people by how they look, and it's our own way of either to approach the person or stay away.
Some case where the person looks smart, wears a tie, a jacket, black shoes and a well comb hair. What's your 1st impression? A businessman maybe? or someone came back from work, or just a guy who is dress, overdress to impress. Then he began to speak, the way he express his language is well polished, speak with a smile, so you can be 60% sure that he works in some office or a full time salesman maybe.
As we can see, how we dress up and act infront of someone can sometimes be an indirect signal tell the other party of what you are without telling them or boasting about your past experiences.
But if could be quite misleading as like in the old kung fu fighting movies where there will be one guy wearing large circular hat, covering his head, drinking water, does'nt bothers anyone and sits quietly can turn out to be a skillfull fighter. Where the bad guys will always the one who is roudy and start to attract attention to everyone.
Conclusion, so if the other person who you are with acted diffrently or feels uncomfortable, do chack on your own appearance and your behaviour, not to ask him/her "hey what's wrong? Are you ok?" Obviously he/she will say ok as not to offend u in any way or another.
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